Dr. Sudhir Arora, MBBS
Pune's Leading Mind Control Consultant and Motivational Speaker

Basic Cause of All Misery :

• At every point, at every age in your life, all the problems and misery of your whole life originate from the same one root -- you don't know "who are you" and "where are you". You just don't know your own True Spiritual Centre.

OUTER CENTRES :

• But to do anything in life you do need a centre or a fixed point of reference. For example, you do need these words to remain stable to move your eyes over them for reading. You do need to have your chair and table fixed as a point of reference. 
• Since you don't know where is your permanent True Inner Centre you develop many "outer centres" to go about the business of your living.
• These outer centres come in the shape of your parents, siblings, friends, marks, medals, business, money, social status, posessions, sex, relationships, children, etc., etc.
• At different stages of your life you get attached to different outer centres. Your life practically revolves around them because they become your points of reference for achieving inner happiness and joy.
• But, at every stage you are in for a shock. These outer centres seem to promise you permanent love, security and happiness. And every time these centres turn out to be nothing but mirages. They give you nothing but false hope.

• The problem is not with these false points of reference.
• The basic reality is that all these points are outside of you. They are only convenient points of reference to spend your 70-80 years on this planet. They can give you good times and temporary pleasures for some time. Then they give you equally bad time and painful experiences too.
• In reality, happiness or peace of mind is already inside you in your own True Spiritual Centre. Its search outside in your outer false centres is basically a totally futile journey.
• Your problems come only because of one real reason. And that is you are disconnected from your Inner True Spiritual Centre and are expecting impossible things like happiness and peace of mind from- your false outer centres.
• Relationships, money, sex etc. are not at all the problem. Your wrong attachment and unrealistic expectations from them is the only root of all your life's problems.